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Safeword Guide

Build your couple's safety vocabulary

πŸ’‘Why it matters

Everyday words like "stop" blur play and intent. A safeword is an agreed-upon pause language that removes ambiguity.

🚦The 3-tier system

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Green β€” go

Default. No verbal action needed.

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Yellow β€” adjust

Not a stop β€” just a change in pace, intensity, or direction. Short, neutral word.

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Red β€” stop now

Emergency brake. Pick a neutral word that never fits the scene.

✍️Your words

Stored only in your browser. Shareable as a card.

πŸ“– Related journal

Safewords are tools of intimacy, not taboo