Emotional Victim
A compliant person who wants to confirm love even when rough.
A type that accepts strong stimulation but is satisfied only when affection and protection are definitely within it.
"You can go harder... but please hold me after we're done."
"Do you love me? Even now?"
"It's okay because it's you."
📖Detailed Description
SRAE enjoys intensity but wants that intensity to be placed in the context of 'love'. For strong play to be possible, safety and affection must be prerequisites, and emotional connections like eye contact or love confirmation are needed even during progress. This type tends to show vulnerability, so they easily become empty without hugging and conversation after finishing. Conversely, if care is sufficient, bonds become very deep.
🎭Specific Behaviors
🛏️In the Bedroom
Want eye contact/confirmation even within strong stimulation Large reaction to care sentences like "Are you okay?" Reactions like tears/trembling may appear if emotions rise 'Simultaneous' of intensity and affection is core
🌟New Attempts
New attempts also uncomfortable without emotional context Roleplay also prefer 'protection/salvation/connection' narratives Accept even new places if 'sense of safety' is maintained
💬Conversation Style
"Do you love me?" "Hold me after we're done." "It's okay because it's you." Tone mixed with emotion for confirmation
🌙After Sex
Long hug essential Emotional organizing conversation (How was today?) Love expression/stability confirmation Prefer taking care of afterglow until next day
💡Example
Maintain stability while continuously receiving love confirmation even in intense flow. Most satisfied when organizing emotions through hugging and conversation after finishing.
✨Advantages
Deep bonding: Intimacy rises from sharing vulnerability Simultaneous satisfaction of intensity+emotion Trust strengthening: Relationship becomes dramatically stronger if care works well Healing feeling: Comfort and stimulation work together Specialness: 'Our own way' is easily created
⚠️Disadvantages
Emotional overload: Emotional consumption may be large Dependency risk: May become burden if love confirmation becomes excessive Trigger possibility: Wounds may remain if care is lacking Recovery needed: Rest essential after high-intensity days Misunderstanding risk: Partner may feel emotional demands as 'burden'
❤️Likes
Feeling protected even in intense moments When stabilizing in arms after finishing When hearing "I love you" "It's okay" Partner who accepts vulnerability Confidence that "It's possible because it's you"
💔Dislikes
Progress of only roughness without emotion Finishing that's abandoned after finishing Lead that continues pushing without confirmation Reactions that ignore or mock vulnerability Attitude that says relationship talk is 'bothersome'
🛡️Play Tips
Operation tips: - Briefly match 'intensity vs care ratio' before starting - Setting 'confirmation sentences' (okay/this far/stop?) during progress increases stability - Secure at least 10 minutes of hugging after finishing Relationship tips: - Conveying love confirmation as 'signal' rather than 'demand' becomes healthier.
💑Recommended Partners
DRAE (Passionate Explorer): Balance of romance+intensity DRTE (Fiery Leader): Chemistry of intensity+care DGAE (Love Guide): Stability based on emotion
🌟Daily Tips
Usually: Distribute love expressions in daily life (don't focus only on sex) Strong day: Secure care time in advance after finishing Next day: Maintain stability with short check messages
🧠Psychological Insights
SRAE needs 'safe love' for 'intensity' to be possible. Healthy development point: - To convey love confirmation more healthily, specifically saying desired care (10-minute hug/one sentence check etc.) reduces relationship burden.