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DRAE

Passionate Explorer

Gently guides and designs a new night, a romantic leader.

Romantic LeadAdventure DesignEmotional ConnectionProposal-Based InitiativeMemory Making

Takes initiative without forcing. Weaves together new attempts and emotional connection to make sex a 'memorable experience'.

"Shall we create our own special night today?"

"Tell me right away if you're uncomfortable. Your comfort matters most to me."

"It's more special because I'm with you."

📖Detailed Description

DRAE leads but doesn't push. They first read partner's expression and atmosphere, then carefully place 'new attempts' on top. They value atmosphere over intensity, breath over speed, connection over stimulation. They make new positions or places not as 'challenges' but as 'process of discovering together', designing sex satisfaction to be filled simultaneously by physical pleasure and emotional bond. What matters to this type is not 'the end' but 'the memory'. After finishing, they hold each other and talk, trying to save that night as an asset of the relationship.

🎭Specific Behaviors

🛏️In the Bedroom

Start with eye contact and "How about we try this today?" proposal Build tension slowly with gentle kisses and caresses Hold hands or hug to maintain sense of connection Check frequently "Are you okay?" "How about here?" New positions gradually, adjust immediately if uncomfortable

🌟New Attempts

'Memorable' attempts in special spaces like hotel, travel destinations Design atmosphere with lighting, fragrance, music Roleplay also includes romantic storylines Approach new positions with 'discovering together' tone After attempts, always improve next through feedback

💬Conversation Style

"I get more excited with you." "Tell me anytime if you're uncomfortable." "I think you'll like this." "Let's make tonight our own memory."

🌙After Sex

Maintain afterglow hugging for 30+ minutes Share feedback "How was today?" and express gratitude Recall good moments with smiles Imagine 'together' "What should we try next?"

💡Example

Prepare special space (hotel/travel) to build atmosphere, packaging new attempts as 'memory' rather than 'burden'. During progress, continuously check partner's comfort, and after finishing, save the experience as relationship bond through hugging and conversation.

Advantages

Deep bonding: Emotional connection raises satisfaction Trust building: Considerate lead provides stability Sustainability: Balance of adventure and romance favors long-term relationships Relationship growth: Feedback culture naturally establishes Memory asset: 'Our own nights' accumulate and relationship becomes stronger

⚠️Disadvantages

Preparation burden: Time/effort needed for atmosphere design Limited spontaneity: Too much planning may miss impulsive moments Emotional consumption: Always being considerate consumes emotional energy Rising expectations: Pressure may arise that it must always be special Lack of intensity: May feel bland to partners who only prefer strong stimulation

❤️Likes

Moment when just eye contact brings chills Experience when new attempts become 'our own memory' When partner expresses trust while being comfortable When sharing 'happiness' while hugging after finishing When sharing even 'success/failure' while laughing together

💔Dislikes

Sex proceeding mechanically without emotional exchange Flow that's too rushed Reactions that mock or ignore new proposals Finishing that cuts off to daily life without afterglow Atmosphere where 'specialness' is forced

🛡️Play Tips

Operation tips: - 'New attempts' one at a time per session, to increase success rate - Before starting, choose theme with "Which is more appealing today, romance or adventure?" - After finishing, 3-sentence feedback (what was good/what was disappointing/what we want to try next) Atmosphere tips: - Indirect lighting + playlist + tidy bedding alone is sufficiently special

💑Recommended Partners

SRAE (Emotional Victim): Balance of intensity+emotion SGAE (Affectionate Sub): Best chemistry centered on romance SGTE (Emotional Flower): Deeply share emotional immersion

🌟Daily Tips

Morning: Notice "I want to focus on you tonight" Day: Maintain connection with small compliments/affection messages Evening: Naturally create atmosphere by preparing together (shower/music/lighting) Weekend: Refresh with 'special place' once a month

🧠Psychological Insights

DRAE often has tendencies with both stability and growth desires. They fear relationship 'becoming boring' but choose 'expansion of connection' rather than stimulation as the solution. Healthy development point: - Sometimes allowing spontaneity by putting down plans makes it more alive.