Wild Dominator
Roughly sets the stage and pushes through to the end, an instinctive leader.
Firmly grasps initiative and dominates the atmosphere with strong stimulation and speed. More drawn to 'the reaction of this moment' and thrill than emotions, constantly trying to expand boundaries in more exciting ways.
"Don't move. I'll control the flow."
"Is this okay? Can we go higher?"
"Let's add just one new thing today."
📖Detailed Description
DRAP prefers strong lead and intense touch in sex, while constantly exploring new places, positions, and plays. Rather than emotional dialogue or atmosphere analysis, they tend to immerse themselves in the thrill and pleasure of the moment when the body reacts. They read partner's breath, expression, muscle tension and relaxation as 'signals' and adjust intensity and tempo. The core is 'intensity' and 'expansiveness'. However, rather than blindly pushing forward, it's closer to a style of 'skilled pressure' that adjusts density and speed while checking reactions.
🎭Specific Behaviors
🛏️In the Bedroom
Grab wrist or waistline to set direction, instantly raising the atmosphere to start Fix tension with clearly strong-weak kisses and pressuring skin contact Mix strong stimulation (spanking/grip/biting etc.) but adjust level while watching reactions Quickly switch positions while experimenting with angle, rhythm, depth Maintain breath and sense of speed to keep immersion without breaking tension
🌟New Attempts
Prefer 'location-changing' plays like shower room, kitchen, car Relatively active in using tools like blindfolds, handcuffs, vibration tools Experiment by lightly suggesting like "Let's try this today" Roleplay focuses on impromptu tension rather than long narratives New attempts confirm results quickly 'one at a time'
💬Conversation Style
"Don't move. I'll lead." "Is this okay?" / "Can we do a bit more?" "Let's try one new thing today." Lead tone mixed with confirmation rather than just commands
🌙After Sex
Quickly organize and return to daily life rather than long emotional dialogue Short feedback like "Good" + one word about next idea Finish with light skin contact for about 10-15 minutes
💡Example
Mix strong lead with tools/situational elements to develop in a "I control speed and flow" structure. Watch partner's breath, expression, body tension and adjust level while maintaining rhythm with short sentences. After finishing, tend to wrap up with simple condition check and organization rather than long emotional dialogue.
✨Advantages
Intense satisfaction: Quick stress relief through high immersion and stimulation Relationship freshness: Hard to fall into routine with new attempts Clarity of lead: Flow is clear so partner can easily entrust Reaction-based adjustment: Not reckless but reading and adjusting 'signals' Energy release: Good for healthily releasing accumulated tension
⚠️Disadvantages
Partner alienation: May feel 'objectified' if emotional connection is weak Intensity fatigue: May require recovery or lead to burden Expansion pressure: Expectation may arise that it must always be new Misunderstanding risk: Roughness may be interpreted as 'lack of respect' Communication lack: May escalate to conflict if prior agreement is weak
❤️Likes
When partner completely matches the rhythm and comes in When a new position fits 'perfectly' When unexpected place/idea succeeds When breath becomes rough and tension is maintained to the end 'Physical communication' that works even with short words
💔Dislikes
Flow interrupted by atmosphere analysis/relationship talk in the middle Same time, same place, same order every time Unconditional rejection of new attempts Atmosphere too cautious that 'thrill' disappears Long emotional meeting after finishing
🛡️Play Tips
Agreement and safety as premise: - Set 'safety signal/word' before starting (e.g., stop/ease/continue) - Gradually increase intensity for strong play - Avoid dangerous areas (acts that block breathing etc.) and immediately stop on discomfort signal - Use new tools after manual/hygiene/skin test Good operation method: 1) Share today's 'possible/impossible/ambiguous' list 2) New attempts one at a time 3) Just 2 minutes of 'condition check' after finishing (Was it okay? What should we change next?)
💑Recommended Partners
SRAP (Extreme Follower): Intensity and expansion desires match well SGAP (Curious Pet): Lightly enjoy experiments together SRAE (Emotional Victim): Learn emotional care even within intensity for balance
🌟Daily Tips
Before work: Short notice "Want to try one new thing tonight?" Lunch: Share just 1 idea (not excessive) After work: Turn on 'switch' with hug+short kiss as soon as entering home Weekend: Manage big events like 'location change' about once a month Relationship maintenance: Balance with 'gentle day' once a month
🧠Psychological Insights
DRAP often appears in people who bear great control and responsibility in daily life, or conversely, have many experiences of losing sense of control. Strong lead and intensity become ways of stress relief and self-confirmation ("I create the flow"). Healthy development point: - Since intensity alone is not all of intimacy, consciously raising the proportion of 'gentle connection' sometimes increases long-term satisfaction.